AS YOU SOW SO YOU REAP

Everyone has to pay the price of thier deeds; no one can escape from it, because GOD himself is the chief justice in court of life.

means
If u do right you will be rewarded  &
If u do wrong u must be punished.

ଥରେ ଗୋଟିଏ ଯାଦୁଗର ଗୋଟିଏ ଗାଁକୁ ବୁଲି ଆସିଥାନ୍ତି | ସମସ୍ତଂକୁ ଗୋଟିଏ ଗୋଟିଏ ଦିବ୍ୟ ଆମ୍ବଗଛ ଚାରା ବାଣ୍ଟନ୍ତି | ସମସ୍ତେ ନିଜ ଘରବାଡି ପଟେ ତାକୁ ଲଗାନ୍ତି | ପ୍ରକୃତ ଯତ୍ନ ନିଅନ୍ତି | ସମସ୍ତଂକ ଚାରା ବଢ଼େ ଓ ଫଳ (ବହୁତ୍ ବଉଳକୁ) ଆସେ| ହେଲେ ଜଣକ ଗଛରେ ଆମ୍ବ କି ବଉଳ ଏତେ ଆସେନି | ସେ ଭାବେ ମୁଁ ତ ଚାରା ଚାରିପଟେ ବାଡ ଘୁରିଛି, କୀଟପତଂଗରୁ ବଂଚେଇଛି, ପର୍ଯାପ୍ତ ଜଳ ଓ ସାର ଦେଇଛି, ତଥାପି ମୋ ଗଛରେ କାହିଁ ଫଳ ଆସିନି ବୋଲି ଚିନ୍ତା ଓ ଦୁଃଖ କରେ | ପୁଣି କିଛି ଦିନପରେ ଯାଦୁଗର ଗାଁକୁ ବୁଲି ଆସନ୍ତି ଓ ସେ ଏସବୁ ପଚାରେ | ଯାଦୁଗର ଯାଇକି ଦେଖିବାରୁ ଜଣାପଡ଼େ- ଗଛର ଚେର ପାଖରେ ଗୋଟେ ଗାତ ଅଛି ଓ ସେଠି ଉଇ ବସା କରିଛନ୍ତି |

MORAL : ବୈବାହିକ ଜୀବନ ଏ ଗଛ ପରି | ଆମେ ସବୁ ଜିନିଷ ଯୋଗାଇ ପାରିବା ଓ ଯତ୍ନ ନେଇ ପାରିବା, ହେଲେ ଉଭୟଂକ ମନରେ ଭଲ ପାଇବା ଓ ଆଗ୍ରହ ରହିବା ନିହାତି ଆବଶ୍ୟକ |ନହେଲେ ଚେରରେ ଉଇ ଖାଇଯିବ ଓ ଗଛରେ ଖୁସୀ ଓ ଆନନ୍ଦର ଫଳ ପୁଷ୍ପ ଫୁଟିବନି |

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One day a magician came to a village and distributed an enchanting small mango plant to each villager. Everyone planted it in their backyard of house and took proper care. All mango plants grew up with time and gave fruit and flower except one. His mango tree gave no fruit or flower. He thought " I have surrounded it with fence, protect it from insects, has given sufficient water and fertilizer. Still where there is no fruit in my tree".He lamented like this. After someday when the magician paid a visit to village the man asked the reason for this. The magician came and checked that there was a hole and house of termite in its root.

MORAL: Marriage life is just like this tree. You can provide all needs and take care the other but most primarily you need love and interest for each other. Otherwise everything will go in vain. There will no fruit & flower of happiness and joy, root will be destroyed by termite.

Understanding Your Best Friend..........

Who is the one who like you most? Who is the one who care most about you? Who is the one who knows about you almost everything?
It is ensure he must never leave you ; always accompany you : both in all summer and spring (in odd and joy). and the like.......


It is not your parent; not your spouse; not your children or best friends.
BUT ITS ONLY YOU YOURSELF.


We are not only one personality but two: we need to understand it. If you do right or wrong; if you win or loose; he is with you.
One is a performer and one is a well wisher (hidden). 
He always guides you; he always knows right and wrong ; tells you the truth/reality some times we (the performer) listen some times ignore. If you not listen you may fail or get average result but when you listen it always give you better result_ positive delightful outcome for you.

So BE A FRIEND TO YOURSELF; UNDERSTAND YOU ARE TWO PERSONALITY; TALK TO YOURSELF; MOST IMPORTANTLY BEFORE DOING ANYTHING (PERFORMER) LISTEN TO YOURSELF.

HOW TO BUILD A BETTER CHARACTER

One day one of disciple visited Shri shri Anukul Thakurji ashram with his child to seek his blessing. He asked Thakurji," How can I give my child a noble character?"

Thakurji smiled and answered," Just try to make him learn/practice four things from his childhood: Observation, Conception, Accuracy and No inclination"

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OBSERVATION  : means how better he can observe  each and every thing /item he goes through.
                            Example: If you visit a place ask him what are the various things he see.
                           Develop awareness of mind
CONCEPTION   : means how minutely or in detail (meaning)  he can understand a concept/action.
                           Example: If you read something or watch something ask him how one concept
                           is related with other concepts.
                           Develop a logical/Analytical mind
ACCURACY       : means how accurately he can do a work
                          Example: If you ask to serve food to you, check whether he is serving in clean                                 hand or not, not throwing down food etc
                          Develop an error free mind
NO INCLINATION:means not to be greedy to anything
                          Example: If you ask him to share something he has (e.g. food or knowledge he                                has etc) whether he hesitate to offer help.
                          Develop an open & universal mind 
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This is all about habit. One need to develop these habit to build a strong noble character.

Rejection = Pain or strength

Rejection is unavoidable . It may give you pain & inferior complexity but also strength to grow better & better.
It's you who has to choose pain or strength.

ALWAYS LIVES IN PRESENT .......

Life is a beautiful thing. It flows with time. What is past ? What is Future ? & what is present ?
Past is a time whom we meet in past ( a time which has passed). Future is a time which has to come we will meet it. In reality when we will meet it will be ( our ) present (at that time).
So present is reality but past is with you and future is waiting for you.
SO ALWAYS LIVES IN PRESENT & MAKE IT PERFECT

TO MEET SUCCESS NEED TO FOLLOW THE ROAD OF HONEST EFFORT

Lets go through a story:

There was a rocky hill full of big stones. One day some friends decided to check in how many attempts one can break the stone. First friend tried ninety-nine (99) times and could not break stone. He thought he should quit. Then second friend tried and broke the stone in first attempt."

MORAL: If the first person had tried for one more attempt he could have broken the stone. 

Sometimes we need one last attempt to get success & we quit and not try ( may be ) due to some uncertain fear & leave that on LUCK. If you are right : doing something to do something good to you in long term. We need to believe more on KARMA than LUCK Sometimes we should not leave on luck and upto last point we do our karma & give our best. Because we do not know what will happen tomorrow. But we can give our best input to present….

ULTIMATELY SUCCESS MUST SURRENDER BEFORE YOUR HARD WORK.

LIFE IS A TWO WAY PATH....

"Life is a two-way path which ends in an open field, i.e., the graveyard.On the way

we have to pass through various trees containing both bitter and sweet fruits.
We should try our best to collect those sweet fruits as much as
we can.The formula to get those sweet fruits is to FOLLOW THE VIRTUOUS
PATH.

Explanation : Life is a journey, an ongoing concept which one day put a full stop at graveyard, i.e., death. Two path implies in each and every part of life we find two type of things or options. On the way we have to pass through various trees means episodes of life having sweet moment and bitter moment. Sometimes happiness sometimes sadness; sometimes victory sometimes defeat; sometimes day sometimes night; sometimes love sometimes hate and the like. Sweet fruits imply happiness, victory etc something positive and bitter fruits the opposite.
We should try our best to collect those sweet fruits as much as we can = try our best to make our life more beautiful with positivity, goodness and optimism.

The formula to get those sweet fruits is to follow the virtuous path means always
choose the right one.So in life two-way path implies to life & death; sweetness & bitterness;
happiness & sadness; day & night; victory & defeat and the like.

WE HAVE TO CHOOSE THE POSITIVE ONE.